Breakup Recovery

We have here a message from a guy who’s having a dilemma without her ex-girlfriend seeing another guy just three weeks after their breakup. He mentioned that just three weeks after the breakup, she’s already invited a guy over to her house. That same guy the ex girlfriend has invited to her house has been mentioned to him, to the ex-boyfriend, previously before when they were still together. Just with that statement, it tells me that the girl has already lost interest in him while they were still in the relationship and she was just waiting for the right moment to leave him. Like in many break up situations like this, a woman would stay in the relationship for around 6-12 months after the guy has been messing up. Women do this because they stay long enough to see through it and until they have completely lost their feelings, so that when they leave there’s no more stones unturned. This is what usually shocks most guys because most guys are clueless and have no knowledge on how women think and how they operate. She’s been messaging the guy while you’re still in the relationship and she has previously mentioned the guy to you before because she is lining up her options. You were losing her because you have been messing up in the relationship. That is why she’s already seeing a guy just three weeks after your breakup because he’s doing what you were supposed to be doing. He is dating, flirting, and sleeping with your woman which is what you’re supposed to be doing.

We have a message here from a guy who says that her ex ex-girlfriend cheated on him and lied about the affair to him. She is very manipulative and from the message, she doesn’t want to take the accountability and face the consequences of her actions. This is why vetting someone initially before things get too serious is very important. You don’t want to first get your feelings involved with a woman then later find out that she is off the rails. This is why you should date a woman first and see what she is like.  Through dating you analyze how she deals with situations, how’s her family is like, are they crazy, does she have substance abuse, does she take medications, what her relationship with her father is, and how she deals with men. These are very important factors when wanting to be in a relationship to prevent stuff like this from happening. You don’t want to be stuck dealing with a woman like this. She’s crazy, a cheater, manipulator, unhinged, and even after the relationship ended she’s still making things hard for you.

Women pull away when attraction isn’t there. Attraction isn’t a choice. Women act on their desires. Forcing pushes them away. Here I will break it down why they do that and show you what do to get her back. Focus on yourself, don’t chase. If she’s attracted, she’ll initiate contact. If not, she’ll leave. The path to re-igniting her attraction is to increase your own value and give her space.

Hi, I’m Coach A-Man, and today I would be breaking down this newsletter called ‘She Broke Up With Me, Why?: