It’s frustrating when you feel like you’ve maxed out everything that you can do in your professional and creative life, but still the dating scene isn’t reflecting your efforts. You’re not getting what you want, which is dating and having intimate and romantic relationships with women or a woman. This guy we have on this newsletter is 25, an accomplished aerospace engineer, talented musician, excels at sports, and has friends who say that they find him attractive. On paper, he sounds like an incredibly high-value man and what women “dreams” of. So why are women seemingly disinterested, ignoring texts, or replying late to him? This is a classic scenario that happens to high-achieving men, and it’s something I often break down for a good reason. It’s not about what you have, but how you present it and how you make women feel. Remember that women falls in love with what they hear, and men falls in love with what they see.