Mastering Work-Life Balance and Relationships

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Attraction & Dating Skills, First Dates

How Would You Help An Average Man Get A Girlfriend?

I found a challenge that a lot of you men that lead to my website and newsletter can benefit from. It’s one of the biggest questions out there for men that are timid, shy, have no experience, and have no previous intimate relationship with women yet and it’s “How Would You Teach Men To Pursue Sexual Relationships? Is it even possible to take an ‘average’ man and not be very good looking to get him into a sexual relationship within 6 months?”. The challenge came with a twist and it says that if he “smashes,” I win a million dollars. So, you know I’m invested.

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Ex-Girlfriend & Breakups, Getting an Ex Back

The Secret To Getting Your Ex Back

I know and see that a lot of you men are out here struggling after a breakup. It’s always hard for us I know. You’re confused, hurting, and desperately looking for answers and what to do. Most of the time it’s always the woman breaking up the relationship and is the one who is usually pulling away on average. As so, what most men do here is try and get her back and try to convince her to want him back. Or sometimes if the man is logical, what he does is to analyze what he did wrong, get better and move on. But either way it’s hard I know. I’ve been there in your situation. You go to YouTube, Reddit, Articles, and Googling ways to get her back and you hope for that one thing that you can do, the one secret line, that special technique that will make you run back to you.

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Relationships

My Girlfriend Is Asking For Me To Do More Than The Bare Minimum

We have a message here from a guy who is dating a girl and she’s been saying to him that he is doing the “bare minimum” in their relationship. What us men should understand is that men should never pursue the woman too much because this will remove the curiosity and intrigue with you. Remember that what’s too available is not valuable. Your attention should be focused on yourself and not in your relationship. Women want to chase men that they are interested in. She wants a man who has his purpose, knows it, and doesn’t let anything stop him from chasing and achieving them. When it’s the other way around, you ruin the polarity making yourself look more feminine and making your woman feel masculine because she’s overwhelmed by your presence. Remember that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear.

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Breakup Recovery, Ex-Girlfriend & Breakups

Ex Wants Me to Confess to Her New Boyfriend

We have a message here from a guy who says that her ex ex-girlfriend cheated on him and lied about the affair to him. She is very manipulative and from the message, she doesn’t want to take the accountability and face the consequences of her actions. This is why vetting someone initially before things get too serious is very important. You don’t want to first get your feelings involved with a woman then later find out that she is off the rails. This is why you should date a woman first and see what she is like.  Through dating you analyze how she deals with situations, how’s her family is like, are they crazy, does she have substance abuse, does she take medications, what her relationship with her father is, and how she deals with men. These are very important factors when wanting to be in a relationship to prevent stuff like this from happening. You don’t want to be stuck dealing with a woman like this. She’s crazy, a cheater, manipulator, unhinged, and even after the relationship ended she’s still making things hard for you.

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Attraction & Dating Skills, First Dates

I Have Never Been In A Relationship

What you need to understand first is that women who are in their feminine energy are attracted to a man in his masculine energy. Masculine energy is an energy that is outward. An energy that shows that he is confident, has a purpose, stable in his life, independent, self-sufficient, content with how his life is, and has emotional control. So the idea is if you want to find a woman, then your focus first should be is to work on yourself first. Remember that a woman wants a man who loves and takes care of himself. A woman will be repelled if you are desperate and if she can sense that you are looking for another “mommy” to take care of you and give pity for you. She wants a strong man that she can depend on so that she can open herself up and relax  with his presence and know that he can take care of everything.

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Attraction & Dating Skills, Flirting & Conversation

Why “Applying Pressure” Chases Her Away

A man should never chase a woman. Instead, what he should be chasing is the vision of himself in a much better place. A place of abundance with work, money, opportunities, women, and everything else. The abundance of options to choose what will be the best for him so he can give his value and get an equal amount of value to what he gives. Masculine energy is focusing on the his personal goals and anything else that improves him as a man and a better person. Anything else besides these will ruin the relationship dynamics with a woman. Doing the opposite is the reason why she pulls away. We have this message from a guy who says why “applying pressure” is counterproductive to getting what you want, which is her. We’ll analyze this, break it down why, and know what to do instead.

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Relationships

My Girl Went On A Girls Trip

It’s from a guy who said that his girl went on a girls  trip. Based on his message, she’s not doing  very loyal things. He said she went on a girl’s trip with two other girl  friends who are also in relationships. They’ve been bar hopping and clubbing every night on the girl’s trip. And one of the nights, they were on a call and she mentioned some words that a loyal woman shouldn’t be saying.. She was entertaining this guy in one of the clubs/bars and she said that she was distracting her for her friends then the guy overheard her entertaining the idea that the guy wants to hook up with her. He said that they have been in a relationship for 6 years.

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Relationships

Meeting Friends in a Relationship

A woman in a relationship is run by her emotions. The more she is this way, the more you’ll enjoy her presence and company. And the more she is less emotional, the less you’ll enjoy the relationship. This doesn’t make her hard to deal with, hard to understand, acting too needy, or acting too weird. Emotions are what the feminine energy is. You don’t want your woman to be masculine, too structured, and too assertive. You want her to be emotional. Cry if she wants to, go away if she wants to, and talk if she wants to. She has to be free. Women are very easy to understand I say. They are not these random people nor do random things. If you look beyond it, look through her words, and see through what she is doing and what she is trying to say, it’ll open up a new world for you and this will show you and make you understand how women work. This will make navigating through relationships easier for you.

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Relationships

What Are The Biggest Mistakes Men Make That Push Her Away?

Keeping and maintaining her attraction is a skill. Like any other skills, there are things to do and not do to make reaching your goals easier. With women there are hundreds of things that make her more attracted to you and there are thousands that make her lose attraction to you. Here I give you three of the worst things that you can do that makes her attracted to you. These are according to women.  I’ll break them down so you can understand what they are, what they look like, and why they push women away. By understanding and actively avoiding these common mistakes, you can fundamentally shift the relationship dynamics, become more genuinely confident, and attract the women that you want from a place of strength and purpose, rather than insecurity, and to maintain her interest.

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Ex-Girlfriend & Breakups, Moving On

How to Meet New Friends After a Breakup

Breakups are normal. It’s essential for growth as a person. It’s normal to feel lost, isolated, and lose your self-confidence as a man after losing a relationship. It’s part of life. It makes you look at yourself, forces you to learn something new in hopes that you learn from it, change for the better, and become a new person. What is not natural is to go against reality. To force yourself where you’re not wanted and appreciated. This will only make things worse for you. It sounds easy when you’re facing it but deep down you know that it’s not good for you. In a breakup, you are always forced to choose between two choices. One would be to look at yourself, see what you did wrong, and change for the better. It’s not gonna be easy as you know but change and pain is essential for growth. Or choose the unhealthy option which is to fill your mind with delusions and force yourself where you are not wanted, to feed your ego, and mask the problem with addictions and whatever gives you artificial pleasure. Remember that not doing anything about changing is a choice that you are choosing as well.

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Ex-Girlfriend & Breakups, Breakup Recovery

Why Do Women Pull Away Even When Things Seem Good?

Women pull away when attraction isn’t there. Attraction isn’t a choice. Women act on their desires. Forcing pushes them away. Here I will break it down why they do that and show you what do to get her back. Focus on yourself, don’t chase. If she’s attracted, she’ll initiate contact. If not, she’ll leave. The path to re-igniting her attraction is to increase your own value and give her space.

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Ex-Girlfriend & Breakups, Getting an Ex Back

The No Contact Rule. Steps to Get Her Back and Healing

Been there and I have felt that pain when your girl leaves. This newsletter will give you a step-by-step guide to heal heartbreak and potentially get her back. Don’t lose hope; you’ve found the instructions, from No Contact to healing, designed to help you achieve your desired outcome.

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