Mastering Work-Life Balance and Relationships

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Mental Game, Self-Mastery for Men

Confidence Is Your #1 Priority! If You Have No Confidence, Forget Everything Else.

Confidence is everything. If you have no confidence, there is no chance for you to get her. Think about it, if you were a girl, would you choose guy 1 who is a weak, wimpy, unconfident, not so smooth guy or would you prefer guy 2 who is laid back, chill, just go with the flow, smooth talker, funny, confident when he talks, when he jokes about himself he’s still smooth about it?

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Relationships

My Wife Just Found Out She’s Pregnant, And Her Reaction Is Confusing Me

We have here a guy who is 28, been with his wife for seven years, and she’s pregnant with a wanted baby. You’re on top of the world, ready to be a dad. But instead of the celebrations, you’re feeling doubts and shock and you’re feeling weirded by it. Like I keep saying, if it feels weird and off, it’s weird and off.

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Relationships

Why Does It Feel So Hard To Find A Man Who’s Willing To Take It Slow Sexually?

Why do men rush sex and how does a woman find her match? We have here a message from a woman who is frustrated about the dating and vetting process, which is completely understandable. Both men and women have a hard time in this stage and that is completely understandable, you are not alone.

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Relationships

My Girlfriend Keeps Putting Apple Devices In My Car

We have here a situation from a guy, and based on his story, that he is noticing a pattern from his girl, through indirect and subtle shifts in her behaviour. She has been placing tracking devices in his car. He’s wondering what is happening whether it is a coincidence or that something is up. Most definitely and with certainty, something is up.

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Relationships

Why Does Every Woman Assume I Have a Girlfriend?

We have here a guy who is 28, and women, and people in general, keep assuming that he has got a girlfriend. This is a very solid start and this is where I want all of us men to be. This is the goal.  Why?  Because this means that your inner strength and your inner purpose is very strong and masculine and it’s radiating outwards and women can sense it, which is what is happening to our friend here.

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Relationships

How Big Should I Go For My New Girlfriend’s Birthday?

Seven weeks in, feeling a little pressure for your girlfriend’s birthday because you want to be special to her. We have here a message from a guy who is worried and wanting advice on how to go on about his birthday date plan for his girlfriend. It’s a decent plan I might say. It’s very thoughtful, intimate, and has a lot of opportunities for deep connection.

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Relationships

My Girlfriend Went Through My Phone While I Was Sleeping

We have here a message from a guy because his woman crossed a line. Pretty stalkerish, controlling vibe situation here. She went through the guy’s phone, violating his trust, and now he is feeling confusion and betrayal. Love should be free and it needs to feel like you are free. Anything besides it it’s not going to feel loving, and you definitely don’t want to be in a relationship like this for a long-time.

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Relationships

How Do I Talk To My Fiancée After Learning She Puts Laxatives In My Pre-workout?

The guy’s fiancée, the woman he was planning to spend his life with, intentionally sabotaged his health and his pursuit of self-improvement. She is pretty much sabotaging him as a man. She puts laxatives in his pre-workout. Let that sink in. She puts laxatives in his pre-workout before going to the gym This isn’t a petty squabble.

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Attraction & Dating Skills, First Dates

We Had A Perfect Date And Now She’s Ghosting Me

We have here a guy who said that he went on a date with this girl. He felt a “perfect vibe”, “effortless conversation”, and “real chemistry”. That’s what he said here in his message. After the date, he said that it was a fun date, that he had fun and all that, even got a text when she got home. Then after the message, silence. Now he is confused, replaying every moment, wondering if he misread everything. Sound familiar?

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Relationships

I Found Something About My Girlfriend That I Shouldn’t Have

We have here a guy who just stumbled into a classic man-trap, didn’t he? Been dating a girl seven months in, feeling like you’ve found your soulmate, talking about moving in together, then BAM! You come across a hidden letter on her laptop that reveals she has feelings and was “pouring her heart out” to her “best friend” just before you two linked up. In the letter that she wrote, she claims that the “best friend” was her first love and that she wishes that she felt the same towards her.

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